Tips for Parents: Talking to Your Teens About Sex and Other Health Topics

It is important for parents to talk to their teens about sex, STIs*, tobacco, alcohol and drugs. Teens want to make their own decisions, but their parents and peers also influence them. Studies show that young people whose parents talk to them about sex and other topics are less likely to engage in risky behaviors. Here are some facts and advice to help you become more knowledgeable and more comfortable when speaking with your teen.

*Note: The term sexually transmitted infections (STIs) refers to any infection that can be spread through sexual contact. These infections are often referred to as sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). The terms STI and STD have the same meaning.

Be aware of these facts about young people:

  • Teens ages 19 and under gave birth to 142 babies in 2021. Pregnant teens and their unborn babies have unique medical risks, including low birth weight and premature birth.
  • Chlamydia and gonorrhea are STIs that can cause sterility (inability to get pregnant). In 2022, 31 percent of chlamydia cases and 19 percent of gonorrhea cases were in teens ages 19 and under.
  • Tobacco, Alcohol and Drug Usage Among Youth
  • For Maryland information click here.

What your teen needs to know about sex:

  • Practicing abstinence is the only sure way to prevent pregnancy and prevent getting an STI.
  • There are risks of getting an STI by having vaginal, oral or anal sex, even if a condom is used.
  • The use of alcohol and drugs may affect the ability to use good judgment and make decisions, including those related to sexual activity. Unwanted pregnancy, date rape, sexual violence or other physical injuries can be the result of alcohol and drug use.

How do you begin talking to your teens?

  • Clearly state your values and morals, so your teens understand how you feel about drugs, alcohol, STIs, teen pregnancy and teen sex.
  • Listen to your teens to find out what they know or don’t know about these topics. Remember, you have the greatest influence in your teen’s life. It is never too early to talk to your teens about drugs, STIs, teen pregnancy or teen sex.

What does the Anne Arundel County Department of Health offer for parents and teens?

  • Pregnancy testing and a list of family planning services (free and confidential) are available at:
    • Glen Burnie Health Center   
      416 A Street, S.W.   
      Glen Burnie, Maryland 21061   
      410-222-6633 
    • Parole Health Center   
      1950 Drew Street   
      Annapolis, Maryland 21401   
      410-222-7381
  • Health educators and medical staff are available to answer questions about teen health. You can call the following programs:
    • Alcohol and Drug Prevention Services, 410-222-6724   
      Provides information about alcohol and drug prevention. Referrals for treatment are available. Health educators are available to speak to groups of parents, teens and community members for free. Speakers may be requested.
    • HIV and Sexually Transmitted Infections Prevention and Care Program, 410-222-7382   
      Provides free and anonymous HIV and STI counseling and testing located throughout the County.
    • Immunizations Program, 410-222-4896   
      Provides recommended immunizations. Parental consent is required.

Parents can get more information at the following websites:

Teen Pregnancy Prevention 

Birth Control

Sexually Transmitted Diseases   

Raising Healthy Kids   

Smoking, Alcohol and Drug Use Prevention   

Health Care for Families and Youth